Last Saturday night, one of the topics that came up during Philosphy Café at Tree Of Life Centre, was how a message can be #perceived completely different to the way it was #intended.
Often we unaware of this #miscommunication, which makes the situation worse.
As you become aware of this, or if you want to convey a message better, words like, "I'm sorry if this may sound..." or "I #apologise, as this is what I meant..." really work wonders. [Being 'unapologetically you' here, isn't useful!]
Other ways to minimise communication breakdown are:
- 'Listen' to yourself as you speak
- Be initially aware of others #viewpoint
- Use non-confrontational words and positive #nonverbal gestures.
- Some people just pause and wait to reply. Instead listen and #respond.
- Avoid texting if you can. [Big topic here!]
If you like discussing topics to the core, join us for the next Philosophy Cafe, on 24/10. We literally have to tear ourselves away...
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